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Kindly please take time to read.

It may look long but this will help you a lot.

A while ago, I went to a seminar on sexuality. I just want to share my learnings for today.

The speaker, Mr. Ed Sorate pointed out that based on the bible(Genesis 1:27) man and woman are created in the image in likeness of God. Thus, man and woman have specific roles to perform based on how we were created. The man does the Work Role and the woman does the Caring Role. Based on this, he enumerated the Physical, Psychological and Intellectual differences between a man and a woman.

Here are the differences:

Physical

Men

• Bigger and Stronger Bones
• Coarse Skin
• Flat Breast
• Square hips and body structure
• Sturdy and Heavy movements

Women

• Small and Fragile Bones
• Fine Skin
• Developed Breast
• Rounded hips and body structure
• Graceful movements

Psychological

Men

• Stress on actions and achievements
• Undisturbed by trifles
• Weakness is discouragement and failure
• Passionate
• Direct, Blunt and brief
• Less patient and less enduring
• Gives love to get sex
• Wants money and success
• Realistic

Women

• Stress on what they are
• Upset by little things
• Weakness is loneliness
• Romantic
• Indirect, Symbolic, Puzzling
• More Patient and preserving
• Gives Sex to get love
• Wants love and affection
• Idealistic

Intellectual

Men

• Essential Minded
• Rational and Logical
• Functional
• Less Communicative

Women

• Detail Minded
• Intuitive
• Aesthetic
• More Communicative

But in GEnesis 2:24 "Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh", It says that in the midst of those difference we were created for PROCREATION (divine)and Communion and expression of love (human).

Sex is pleasure and it is where our freewill plays. Why? Because we are the ones who decide to whom we give it. It is also the greatest experience of love and the door to life.

Sex was even linked to ketchup.

Roles of Ketchup?

• adds flavor
• not the main thing
• hast to be in the proper place otherwise it becomes improprer and dirty

But avove all what is IMPORTANT is this:

LOve and Marriage

Without LOve, it's gonna be RAPE or FORNICATION

Without Marriage, it's gonna be PREMARITAL SEX

The speaker also mentioned the MYTHS about Sex, Love and Relationship

1. "If you love me let's have sex" Should I give it?

Answer: True love RESPECTS, CARES and grows with affection and thinks of the needs of others. If he insists WALK OUT on him. If he loves you he will RESPECT you.

2. All my friends are having sex. Should I?

Answer: It doesn't mean they are. Wait longer than rush and regret it.

PROGRESSION OF SEXUAL INtimacy

So is Sex IN?

It starts with INfatuation

Then INvolvement

Next is INtimacy (starts with a kiss)

Then INtercourse

Afterwhich INanakan (Filipino for being pregnant)

Then INiwan (Filipino for being left)

Then what's next? INabort (going on abortion)

So is it IN?

3. If you really love someone you will sleep with him.

Answer: You're in charge

4. Sex is the most important thing.

Answer: No self esteem is.

5. Sex means instant adulthod.

Answer: Maturity do not depend on it.

6. My BF won't leave me if I have sex with him.

Answer: Sex won't made him yours, A baby can't make him stay.

7. It won't happen to me. I'm too young.

Answer: You are physically capable. Wait do with the right person, right time, right place and right purpose.

8. Sex makes "us" compatible.

Answer: Sex doesn't guaramtee compatibility. 3 out of 10 marriages end inseparation

9. Sex like infatuation grows into love.

Answer: Premarital sex takes away many things.

10. LOve is a feeling.

Answer: Feeling is important it draws us to each other. But it is the decision to love that defines a real relationship.

There are two kinds of relationship: 1. Infatuation, it's more on sexual attraction, feeling, intimacy, and pain. 2. Friendship, it's more of self discovery, rspect, trust, being one's self and inspiration to be better.

Dating is okay as long as you know your limitations and you don't go out of that boundaries.

You don't want to get STD's or AIDS or you don't want to have abortion. At this point in time, people should be physically, emotionally, intellectually, financially and spiritually ready before one gets in to SEX.

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