I was wondering around... I went to Finella's blog and I found this link to My Heritage. Try Your own too. It's fun and I bet you'll enjoy it.
http://www.myheritage.com |
I was wondering around... I went to Finella's blog and I found this link to My Heritage. Try Your own too. It's fun and I bet you'll enjoy it.
http://www.myheritage.com |
"Superiority complex refers to a subconscious neurotic
mechanism of compensation developed by the individual as a result of feelings of
inferiority. The term was coined by Alfred Adler (February 7, 1870 – May 28,
1937), as part of his School of Individual Psychology.
Those exhibiting the superiority complex commonly project their feelings onto others they
perceive as inferior to themselves. Accusations of arrogance and cockiness are
often made by others when referring to the individual exhibiting the superiority
complex.
Behaviors related to this mechanism may include an exaggeratedly positive opinion of one’s worth and abilities, unrealistically high expectations in goals and achievements for oneself and others, vanity, extravagant style in dressing (with intention of drawing attention), pride,
sentimentalism and affected exaltation, snobbism, a tendency to discredit
other’s opinions, forcefulness aimed at dominating those considered as weaker or
less important, credulity, and others.
Social aloofness, daydreaming, isolation could also be associated to the Superiority Complex, as a way to evade the fear of failure related to the feelings of inadequacy to face real world.
Superiority and Inferiority Complex are often found together as the different expressions of the same pathology. "
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But in GEnesis 2:24 "Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh", It says that in the midst of those difference we were created for PROCREATION (divine)and Communion and expression of love (human).
Sex is pleasure and it is where our freewill plays. Why? Because we are the ones who decide to whom we give it. It is also the greatest experience of love and the door to life.
Sex was even linked to ketchup.
Roles of Ketchup?
But avove all what is IMPORTANT is this:
LOve and Marriage
Without LOve, it's gonna be RAPE or FORNICATION
Without Marriage, it's gonna be PREMARITAL SEX
The speaker also mentioned the MYTHS about Sex, Love and Relationship
1. "If you love me let's have sex" Should I give it?
Answer: True love RESPECTS, CARES and grows with affection and thinks of the needs of others. If he insists WALK OUT on him. If he loves you he will RESPECT you.
2. All my friends are having sex. Should I?
Answer: It doesn't mean they are. Wait longer than rush and regret it.
PROGRESSION OF SEXUAL INtimacy
So is Sex IN?
It starts with INfatuation
Then INvolvement
Next is INtimacy (starts with a kiss)
Then INtercourse
Afterwhich INanakan (Filipino for being pregnant)
Then INiwan (Filipino for being left)
Then what's next? INabort (going on abortion)
So is it IN?
3. If you really love someone you will sleep with him.
Answer: You're in charge
4. Sex is the most important thing.
Answer: No self esteem is.
5. Sex means instant adulthod.
Answer: Maturity do not depend on it.
6. My BF won't leave me if I have sex with him.
Answer: Sex won't made him yours, A baby can't make him stay.
7. It won't happen to me. I'm too young.
Answer: You are physically capable. Wait do with the right person, right time, right place and right purpose.
8. Sex makes "us" compatible.
Answer: Sex doesn't guaramtee compatibility. 3 out of 10 marriages end inseparation
9. Sex like infatuation grows into love.
Answer: Premarital sex takes away many things.
10. LOve is a feeling.
Answer: Feeling is important it draws us to each other. But it is the decision to love that defines a real relationship.
There are two kinds of relationship: 1. Infatuation, it's more on sexual attraction, feeling, intimacy, and pain. 2. Friendship, it's more of self discovery, rspect, trust, being one's self and inspiration to be better.
Dating is okay as long as you know your limitations and you don't go out of that boundaries.
You don't want to get STD's or AIDS or you don't want to have abortion. At this point in time, people should be physically, emotionally, intellectually, financially and spiritually ready before one gets in to SEX.
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